no gringojj ... the elder quit answering you because of your apostate ways. Big difference. for Kwin ... I said apostate ways. gringojj is not apostate but is exibiting apostate ways.
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My wifes struggle
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well its seems my wife has hit a standstill with the dubs.
some of you may know my situation, but i guess its all relative anyway.
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My wifes struggle
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well its seems my wife has hit a standstill with the dubs.
some of you may know my situation, but i guess its all relative anyway.
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jgnat ... no. It is impossible. We would be hearing your side only (not that you would slant it), but it is natural to see things in a one sided manner where our loved ones are concerned. That is why there are usually two or three elders to hear from anyone with a serious question. Your hubby has the recourse to go to other elders if he is not satisfied.
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My wifes struggle
by gringojj inhi friends.
well its seems my wife has hit a standstill with the dubs.
some of you may know my situation, but i guess its all relative anyway.
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My wifes struggle
by gringojj inhi friends.
well its seems my wife has hit a standstill with the dubs.
some of you may know my situation, but i guess its all relative anyway.
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Mrs.J ... why are calling gringojj a funny little man? I at least have enough respect for him not to call him insulting names.
In case you foolishly were directing your bad manners at me ... I am a woman.
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My wifes struggle
by gringojj inhi friends.
well its seems my wife has hit a standstill with the dubs.
some of you may know my situation, but i guess its all relative anyway.
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My wifes struggle
by gringojj inhi friends.
well its seems my wife has hit a standstill with the dubs.
some of you may know my situation, but i guess its all relative anyway.
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When I said the elders saw thru you so easily .. I was so right!!! You are virtually transparent. Your feeble attempt to make me feel bad because hubby may be cheating is absolutely laughable!!!
As I said before, your situation is very serious. You know as well as anyone that your wife will likely return to her origins .. most of us do after a few rebellious years. That will be a blow to your ego. And if you try to stop her you will likely lose her for sure. If you stop her also, in time, she will blame you, so you lose again.
jgnat ... how could I possibly know anything about your husband and his situation?
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My wifes struggle
by gringojj inhi friends.
well its seems my wife has hit a standstill with the dubs.
some of you may know my situation, but i guess its all relative anyway.
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Well maybe the elders you approached are very intelligent .. to think your question is from apostates. You were obviously easy to see through.
Why are you so concerned with my well being? I'm here once in a while because I want to be. Today I felt I could be of some help to your wife, but it is obvious that is a ruse on your part. I doubt she ever sees this site.
On the other hand, you may have some real fears .. your wife may choose her religion over you. In the end she has to decide for herself and I hope she does the right thing.
I had to laugh when you said you feel sorry for me in a way .. maybe that's the missdirected pathetic recognition you thought I was after. Please, save your sorrow for yourself and your family. I am very secure in my feelings and knowledge of the truth. If I had doubts, I would be asking here for answers ... instead I try to give a few. And as Angaharad (sp?) said not too long ago ... I am welcome here too. If you see it differently, speak to her.
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My wifes struggle
by gringojj inhi friends.
well its seems my wife has hit a standstill with the dubs.
some of you may know my situation, but i guess its all relative anyway.
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Am I not speaking the same language as everyone here?
Stats show that marriages fail at the general rate of 50% or higher ... no matter ones religion.
My POINT is ... more similarities between mates gives a better chance of success .. religion is one.
Preaching does not have any signifigance to this topic.
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My wifes struggle
by gringojj inhi friends.
well its seems my wife has hit a standstill with the dubs.
some of you may know my situation, but i guess its all relative anyway.
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And what is your reasoning in not addressing the elders, face to face? Is there some reason you cannot do this simple thing? I've never seen an elder refuse to answer any honest request, in fact they are most happy to. What is your reasoning?
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My wifes struggle
by gringojj inhi friends.
well its seems my wife has hit a standstill with the dubs.
some of you may know my situation, but i guess its all relative anyway.
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No, you didn't ask for common sense, but you got it! My logic is this ... the more similarities a couple has, the better chance they have of making a success of their marriage ... relgion is one of them. With all the divorcing going on around you, I hope you and your Mrs. have a better go at it.
As for any questions you post in the quise of it being from your wife ... I will repeat. Go to any elder in her congregation and ask.